After our 3rd Anniversary (20th Jan 2005)

Yesterday we went to buy the 2nd part of our gift: A white Fila bag, which I will use in New Year...Nice nice.

We went to Grand Plaza Park Royal to celebrate our 3rd Anniversary, with Seafood buffet. Thot it will be nice, in the end, quite disappointing, with its lack of variety and also non-freshness. Sianz. Waste $$.

Little did we expect after our 3rd anniversary, we would face some couple probs on the next day. Now feeling : ( but trying to cool down my swollen eyes n sad emotions. Sigh, it boils down to a word: "Trust." How to achieve it totally with our partner continuosly, i duno how. But I am ashamed of myself not being able to do that completely n totally, n easily wavered by a small issue. Well, being insecurity has always been me, I duno how to change it completely thou I know he has tried his best to assure me 100%. Now i duno when the whole issue will be completely ovr n solved without any unahppines. Juz wait lor.

Yesterday is PH, we went Ailing's hse (my colleague) for an informal house warming cum pot luck. In the end, everyone bring so much food that we can't finish it and some have to bring home. It was very fun, with all the eating, talking, joking, watchin her wedding video and photos etc. Its so fun! I even play with my colleague's children in hide-and-seek. Aiyah, they really know how to hide leh, can't find them leh. haha.

Jianquan has a baby niece now!

Today in the midst of my lunch gathering with my pri sch friends at PS, I received a news from Dear that his sis-in-law has given birth today!! To a cute baby girl! So happy & joyous to be hearing this piece of good news. We bought a Precious Moments Baby feeding set for the baby, hopefully she will like it too! The mother is so bloated after giving birth, must be the water retention. Both the parents are so blissful & happy. Will upload her nice photos once taken k? She oreadi know how to sulk n pout liao, cheeky little girl. Dear is happy to hav this little niece. Tink we have to save up for her 1st month gift liao. He really dotes on her lor. We din dare to carry her esp she's so fragile and new-born lor.Mayb next time bah.

Now back to the lunch gatherin I had,it was good to be able to meet up with the girls again after some time, esp good to hear my frens getting attached etc lor. Well got 1 of them seems to be nt able to click wif us much, so abit awkward on tt part lah. We r tryin our best to include her liao, but somehow the chemistry is nt there leh.

Heard my fren, suling got hurt aft falling from treadmill, tink exercise also muz b careful liao. hope she's ok now.

Yah,one more thing, Dear jus gave me the 1st part of our 3rd Anniversary gift- its a doggie pen holder!! I put in my office liao.Sth that I quite wan n like it. He also very clever, managed to buy from someone at a cheaper price!! I like his attitude man! haha.

Will upload photos soon... : )

Jogging session

On Tue, I went jogging with 2 other colleagues - Pei Pei & Charlene. Wah seh, long time nvr exercise liao, still managed to complete 3-4 rounds of jogging.haha..lucky have their company. U can c from the pic, after we finished our jog. Thou shagged, still look so radiant hor! hee...
Hope can still peserve on...

These few days din meet Dear cuz he workin noon shift. Only till today then we can meet.So excited! :P

Flat choosing Day

Today is our flat choosing day. As expected, the goods ones are no longer left for us till our turn, and so we...din select any! :P Cuz Dear not considering 90m square ones, saying that we nvr view them before, so who knows it might be quite crampy? Thou initially I wan posin Dear alot of uncertainties, and worries for taking this step forward, he was very nice and reassuring me alot. (Hinting that he is Willing to marry me is good enuf, y shld I tink so much? heehee...) Actually its after I was reading the book on: Will Our Love Last? marital therapy book that I realised and learnt a lot of things about reltaionships, about marriages. That's y i got a lot of uncertainties about our decision to get married. Gladly, this opportunity alllows me to learn some things and also to realise that Dear is an affirming support to me. Thank you Dear

Well, to purposely take leave to go choose flat then to be disapointed (thou expected) is nt really nice feeling. Well, we get over it very soon as we know we still have other opportunities in the future. We even watched Kungfu to relax ourselves. It was a nice 1/2 day that I have spent with Dear : )

Wanling's 22nd Birthday

Dinner at Chomp Chomp, Drinks at Coffee Bean

New Yr Countdown 2004

Its a brand new year of 2005 now!!! Sigh..feel like how time flies...I am now a working adult, and have worked for more than 7 months. And I am going to choose my flat on 4th of Jan 05. ( Juz duno whether there are any good ones left upon our queue turn)

My 7 new year resolutions:
1) To be less selfish, and treat others better.
2) To be less angry and more patient (expecially durin my work)
3) To love all more (esp my Dear and closed ones)
4) To cherish everyone I know
5) To spend less & save more (once we got the flat)
6) To be more matured & steady (esp in work)
7) To be less greedy so can slim down faster (hee hee)

My new year countdown was in Dear's car, on the way to Cineleisure for movie. In the end we missed the actual show: Blade, and watch National Treasure instead. After the BBQ at his fren's shop was actually quite tired, esp after 1/2 a day at work, then preparation of marinating of food. In the end juz slp a while before go out. Tot would slp in cinema, but show was nice, so din slp in the end.

Din get to meet Dear for consecutive 4 days till Thursday. Tink both of us busy wif work, and also can't meet up due to his afternoon shift schedule. Glad he is adjustin to his work now, thou always complain tired.

Past few days was handlin tt stupid Singtel bill matter ( My hp got lost last mth then the person made IDD calls to Vietnam for tt whole hr, cuz tt stupid 1626 can't be reached!!!!) Then initially they say can't waive the IDD charges, and the most angry and frustratin thing is that, the supervisor juz tell the customer service person to tell me, can't waive the charges. Juz like that!!! They dun even bother to investigate!!! I was boiling inside n wrote complaint letter to them. In the end, they offered me free 60 mins talktime for next 3 months s compensation. Wat the *F*!! Y would l need extra talktime?!?? Wat I wan is them givin me a justified n satisfactory reason, n not juz throw me some "goodies" tinkin that it can satisfy me?!? In the end, the duty manager talked to me and we had a long discussion, n at least he can explain to me clearly y they can't waive the charges, and also offered me a better n satisfactory compensation. But from then on, I am oreadi unsatisfied with Singtel and dun like their service anymore. But no choice, I am still binded with them for the next 2 years...sigh...

Enuf of my unhappy grumbles and grievances. May 2005 be a better year, with more sales, more commissions, more satisfactions, n maybe a good year for marriage? hee... : )

Xmas at Raffles City