Sunday, December 30, 2007

Fish Leung's Concert - 29 Dec 2007




This is my 3rd concert, over the past few years, and the 1st one which touches me.. and which I enjoyed myself the most... The songs that Fish Leung belts out are the familiar love songs which we will always dedicate and sing in KTV rooms..in bathroom... on the way to work... in the car...

The song that makes me cry is "Fen shou kuai le" cuz I thot of friends around me who have been hurt recently on the road of love, and many times I wan to sing this song to them, to comfort them, to encourage them, but I do not dare as I do not wan to add salt to their wounds.. But glad to say that they have walked out of their darkness path, and have their own new partner to walk with them...

The special guest appearance is Ah Xin from MayDay - Dear's fav band..Of cuz he very happy lah...We enjoyed ourselves very much, together with another 2 couples' companion.

Next is Jacky Cheung's concert.. hope it has the same emotional impact on me...

A Meaningful Early New Yr's Gathering with the Sisters




We had a belated X'mas 2007 and pre-New Year 2008 Dinner @ The Amara Hotel - The Elements Restaurant on 30 Dec 2007.

The atmosphere was good, the food was marvellous and most importantly, the bonding time was most memorable...We shared laughter, exchanged gifts and of cuz' heart-to-heart talk.. What touched me the most for that night (I even got abit teary), is my well-wishes for my beloved fellow sisters... I hope they still remember what I have wished them and most importantly is, the wishes will come true for all of us...

May 2008 be a good and smooth year ahead for all of us...

Primary School Chums X'mas Gathering




It's amazing... We have the record of 15 years of friendship between the 5 of us.. the longest being with Susan - total of 18 years cuz I knew her since Pri 1...

Very blessed to have this close group of friends who I still keep in close contact with..especially Eve as we work near each other..

Post X'mas gathering was held at my place as Qixi and Jean have not seen my new house yet... Moreover I had X'mas tree at my place, so it creates a X'mas feel for the gathering ya! haha... More photos with Suz's camera... Just these for sharing..

Love u guys....

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Diyan's Full Month - 22 Dec 2007




We have an additional family member for the Yam's Family, on 22nd Nov 2007.
I announce the arrival of Diyan - the younger sister of Dawn.

Our X'mas Eve @ The Jewel Box




Monday, December 24, 2007

I love X'mas because...

1. Our X'mas Tree & the wonderful pressies!

I always love to gaze at our X'mas tree and looking at the X'mas lights shining...It feels so warm at heart just having our own X'mas tree in our own house... Dun forget the pressies that we spread them all under the tree! However the wrapped-pressies get lesser as we give them to our family and friends, then the tree looks bare. Hahaha...Nevertheless, the unwrapped-pressies also got more as we receive them from family and friends. Afterall, its a season of Giving and Sharing right?

This year we received a lot of "surprise" gifts. Why are they referred as "surprise" gifts? Cuz' normally from the outlook of the gifts, we will thought and believe that gift is a certain item, however after opening up, we realise its something else and better! Most importantly they are mostly useful items. We love the "surprise" element that the gifts gave us!

2. Family & Friends' Gatherings

This is the season whereby family and friends' gatherings cannot be missed and forgottened. I'd dimsum-lunch with my parents @ Yan Restaurant and got wonderful gifts from them. Thank you Dad, mum & bro! I was telling Dear, I felt very fortunate as I am being doted by so many people close to me... I wanted to treat them for this dimsum-lunch, but both my mum n Dear co-paid for it in the end... I just feel so loved!

On X'mas day itself, we'd potluck lunch with my in-laws and sis-in-law's family members and again another round of gift exchange. Dawn was so happily opening up her share and her sister, Diyan's share of presents... She is ever so clever & cheeky when we played the identify-the-animal-sounds game that we bought for her. Dear prepared his all-time-favourite-and-best-dish: The Yam's Fried Rice! I simply love his fried rice and ate alot to show my support! Hee... I couldn't have my fill of his fried rice yet, so he says he will cook for me again..hee...








For friends' gathering, we went to The Lam's house before X'mas eve and we had steamboat dinner over video-watching & logcake-cutting session. Of cuz' gifts were not forgotten and I thank the friends for their wonderful presents!

Will be having post X'mas gatherings with my primary school mates @ my humble home tomorrow, and my JC chums-cum-sisters on 30th @ Amara Hotel for buffet dinner. Photos will be available after the gatherings. (Of cuz' la! Fei hua! haha...)

3. Beautiful X'mas lightings on the streets

Everytime I passed by the streets along Orchard, I just go "Wow...."  I simply love the X'mas feel that the lightings that it gives me, and the beautiful and spectacular sight that I saw... Very emotional during X'mas... I repeat myself that "I love X'mas" every time of the year and Dear was like " Erm, you have said it for the past few years liao..." haha... X'mas is just different from the rest of the year, and especially with a loved one celebrating with you, you just feel the love in the air! I will still be continuing saying this for the following years to come!

4. Mr & Mrs Santa Claus were here!

Can you believe it? Mr & Mrs Santa Claus were here! They came to our house on X'mas day and hang a bag of gift outside our doorstep! This mysterious Santa Claus couple sms us on the morning when we were still sound asleep, asking if we were at home! haha....Wat a high-tech Santa Claus hor? Thank goodness nobody took the gift away..hee... We love the gift very much, and we love & appreciate the thought of the gift, especially the efforts of coming all the way from "North Pole?" and putting at our doorstep.. Its just like a fairytale coming true and its just so sweet!!! A lovely surprise again, for this festive season.

5. You are here with me, to spend a memorable X'mas Eve...

This year's X'mas Eve is especially so extraordinary and special and touching one.... Dear planned to have us to spend the X'mas @ The Jewel Box (Mt Faber), and wanted to surprise me. But he got busy at work so he asked me to do the enquiry and booking. : / Nevertheless, the thought is there and it doesn't matter that I can help to make the whole thing happen!

X'mas set dinner was real expensive and so we do away with it, being the practical couple. Instead we had a yummylicious yet cheap dinner @ Carl's Junior! Then we made our way up the winding and upslope to Mt Faber... With Dear's 小橙 motorbike, we managed to surpass several cars which are moving at snail's pace. The blue & white lightings were so capivating.. You should take a look at their tallest X'mas tree! Its awesome! Despite it is not a "real tree", it is still a very very magnificent view when we looked up! Got ourselves in by buying the Snacks-&-Drinks tickets, and we got to see X'mas arriving on a sleigh via the cable car tracks, soft Snow falling, and also enjoying the X'mas songs on the top of the mountain...

I looked at Dear, feeling so touched that this man, this very simple and down-to-earth man whom I used to know, can be so lo-mantic at times.. I feel very fortunate that he is always ready to have new ideas in his mind, bringing me to experience many different things in life... I love him so much... I hope we can continue to be lo-mantic even when we grew older... Hee...

Thank you so much for giving me such a special & memorable X'mas Eve..

Merry X'mas Dear...

Friday, December 21, 2007

Life is fragile

Life is very fragile...

Life is attained thru' birth and life is ended thru' death.

New-born babies are symbols of Life while funerals are symbols of death.

Just went to a funeral whereby the death is sudden.

I've come to realise, Life can be short as death could be sudden...

...Cherish yourself, Cherish your loved ones...

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Yan's Wedding




Date: 16 Dec 2007 (Sunday)

Event: Yan's Big Day!

Recap: Woke up at 4:30 a.m. to prepare myself for us (the jie-meis) to reach Yan's house around 5-tish...Havn't been waking up in the early wee hours ever since JC schooling days.. not really like it but bobian..hee..Teochew wedding mah.. When we reached her house, she was already all dressed up and ready to be fetched by his husband liao! Pacing up and down the living hall, and showing all signs of anxiousness of whether the husband and his group of xiong-dis are coming soon, she is really not a "patient" bride! haha.. We kept reminding her to be demure, and don't be her usual loud and garang pattern... I am her 贴身丫环 so have to wait inside the room with her.. It was so "pressuring" and hot inside the room as she kept asking me to tell the husband to quickly give in to the jie-meis' requests and quickly come fetch her cuz they have to keep to the auspicious time... I was really caught in-between till I had no choice but to call one of the jie-meis to tell them to get things going... Aiyoyo... Really difficult to be the role leh..haha...
After the morning games, we went to her husband's place and waited for nearly 4-5 hours in his place as she was not allowed to step into outdoors between 9a.m. - 1p.m., and most of the relatives only come around 10-tish for the tea ceremony. Feelin hungry and bored (cuz nothing much to do), the girls went for morning breakfast at Tampines Mall's Mac while the guys went out on their own. Basically we dun like the guys cuz they are childish and ah-bengs, so we dun wan to go out with them! Hmmp! After finishing the breakfast, we went back to her husband's place, and then the bride started to brief us on the dinner's reception duties... Everything has not been briefed to us only till that day itself. So basically the whole day is very 随机应变style. Even for the morning game's hiccup, till the wedding dinner roles, its all last minute being settled. I find it funny that the bride has to busy herself with such things on her big day, which she shouldn't have.

Then everyone started staring into blank space, and tiredness started to sink in cuz everyone woke up so damn early... It was until 12-tish that the groom buay tahan liao, he persuaded Yan to leave the house earlier and return to her house for tea ceremony. That was when we were also finally relieved from our duties and can return home to rest.. Once I reached home and washed up, I fell asleep on the lounge chair... Fell into a very deep sleep...

Dinner was at Tanjong Katong Complex Qian Xi Restaurant. As I was her 贴身丫环, I only need to accompany her when she changed her gown, other time I have free time to catch up with my ex-badminton mates and take photos with my friens.. Not much pressure..hee... Everyone enjoyed themselves and the couple even sang KTV in the restaurant lor! (anyway they are KTV King & Queen mah..its so natural for them to sing on their wedding nite.. ) Sharon and Candy also dedicated song to the couple by singing for them.. *clap clap* They are our singing representatives from the jie-meis...

Wish them a blissful marriage and be loving always...

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Yan's Hen's Nite




Celebrated Yan's Hen's nite at Conrad Centennial Hotel with the other jie-meis of her wedding last month. The room was nicely decorated with the efforts of the other jie-meis while I was having my driving lesson... So I contributed nothing..hee... The whole session was sabo-ing her and luckily she was game enuf to carry it well! Firstly we blindfolded her and led her to the nicely-decorated room.. How surprised and excited she got when she undo the blindfold. We gave her a pair of the Mickey & Minnie champagne glass, flown all the way from Hong Kong Disneyland. Then made her wear a green dress (She HATES green!!!!) with a sash of "Bride-to-be" We made her walked around the bustling Suntec City with her pink rabbit ear hairband. People stared at her with curiosity and some was sniggering. There was even one ah-pek who asked to take photo with her lor! Hahaha....

After dinner treat, we went back to the room and had our game of the Truth-or-Dare.. She was all willingly to cooperate with us, giving us juicy details all the way, making all of us so satisfied and enjoying the whole session.

Saturday, December 15, 2007

My past week updates

Work: Has been busy and hectic, with one of the colleagues away for off-site training, leaving only 2 of us biah-ing... Many urgent requests from business side, and thus resulting in me running up and down the various floors. And also, with arrangements of new meetings and last minute withdrawals causing a lot of "arrow-shooting" across emails (typical of "Just Follow Law" movie). I am relieved that I am in good hands as my new small boss, ST, has shielded me/our team from the arrows...phew... Talking about my new small boss, I have been "chosen" as his part-time personal assistant and I have never regretted making this choice as he is really the nicest and lovely boss I ever have. Ever ready to teach and guide me, patient, and no temperament, humorous and independent yet willing to listen to what others are saying. Accommodating yet not over-bearing others... Often saw him munching sandwich lunch alone at his desk and doing Sudoku for leisure..I felt bad and jio him out for lunch with another PA and my team supervisor. Had such a great time with him as he is just so nice person... 

Personal: Dear just went for his intralase surgery on Wednesday, and thankfully the surgery went fine and he is now recovering well... Initially he felt the pain n blurriness after the surgery, and needs to put on 3 different types of eye drips every hour or two. Dear kept complaining boredom for the past few days of MC as he can't really watch tv/play PSP/ use computer cuz' he needs to rest his eyes more. Then finally on Friday, he helped to do some housework and I was kena teased by the optrometrist that me, being the 管工,  so "cruel", never give me off-day. Hmmp!! 冤枉啊!!! I never ask him to do one hor.. He just felt bored and thought he could do some simple housework since he is so free mah... I am not his 管工 lor! Subsequently things improve and we were able to go for some Xmas shopping on Saturday. Finally bought gifts for our 2 little nieces - Dawn's Xmas gift and Diyan's 满月gift, and also some small gifts for fellow colleagues and friends.. Haven't got chance to finish shopping as we were beat-tired from the constant walking-and-taking of public transport journey..muhaha.. no own transport for these few days till Dear recover more of his vision.

The postman came to deliver my long-awaited driving license on Sat noon but we were out..so only will get to see my license probably later in the week bah...Can't wait to get hold of it! muhahha...

Just finished a whole busy day at Yan's wedding today, and felt a lot of different emotions for the day..Shall blog about it when photos collection is complete. hee..

Till then, keep on waiting la...

Monday, December 10, 2007

Statements to remember...

"maybe u are pregnant?!!! oh no!! i am going be a father soon!!"

"no need to worry... it's a joyous event. if it happens then it is meant to be..."

"i think i will cry if i know i be a father soon..."

 

Sunday, December 9, 2007

Huijing's Big Day! (From Hen's nite to Actual Wedding)




Another close girl-friend of mine has officially joined the "Married" club on 16 Nov 07!

Witnessed Ziqin and Huijing's first union on 06.06.06....Legally joined the "Married" Club back then...

Went to their new house when it was newly-renovated but not yet completed with the furniture...Saw a lovely home being set up...

Celebrated her Hen's nite with a hand drawn T-shirt (Thanks to Jeroen & Teris's nice art work! ) over Yuki Yaki Teppanyaki Dinner & lotsa catching up and photo-taking...Simple yet enjoyable...Especially this time round with Teris around...

Attended her Customary Wedding on 16.11.07..Thou' I din get the chance to join the morning session, I can still see the glamor and radiant in her looks from her photos... Happy for her to have married a good lao gong... Hope to see them carrying Little Lam soon ya? :P

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Survey on Wedding Gowns

Dearest girl-friends,

Please help to answer the below survey questions on wedding gowns (I am helping a fren of mine). Thank you all so much for your precious time!

1) What is your dream gown? (e.g. with laces, beads, material in organza, satin etc)

2a) Would you do research on latest trend?
2b) and from what source? (e.g internet, magazine, referral etc)

3) Would the cost be a big concern?

4) Do you prefer off-the-rack or made-to-measure gowns?

Tuesday, December 4, 2007

My (terrible) Driving Experiences On the Road

After I gotten my (temporary) license last Wed, I have been given few opportunities to drive my MIL's car, as a form of "realistic practices". The 2nd time on the wheels is a real terrible experience! And you know Where & When did I drive? On a SUNDAY evening at LITTLE INDIA (near my place)!! Very very terrible... The roads out from the multi-storey carpark leading to the main road are PACKED with people (Indians mainly) and are lining along the kerbside. And the small roads are real small and squeezy especially after they built the divider.. Oh my god! I almost lang-ga the divider pole when I tried to make left turn cuz I was tryin to avoid the @%#^#$^$ ppl standing on the roadside! Shit lor! Then behind me got a car when I tried to reverse and make corrective action. I was so flustered and confused which way should I turn... I quickly turn to Dear who was sittin beside me... "dear... I duno how..." haha... he quickly give me instructions then help me turn the wheels... Phew! Thot that was the end of my terrible experience.. but then once I reach the main road, even worse....The $#&#&$*%* ppl are jay-walking in GROUPS!!! IN FRONT OF MY CAR SOMEMORE!!! As I go slowly to avoid hitting anyone of them, they kept crossing in batches!!! I was so pissed and angry with them that I show them the unhappy hand gesture (dun worry, my middle finger didn't come out straight away). Bit by bit, inches by inches, I managed to come out of the terribly-congested-with-jaywalkers Serangoon Road.. It was not easy lor.. My dad jokingly remarked, no wonder we took so long to reach their place lah, cuz I was driving! Oi!

Then my 3rd terrible experience was Parking.. I juz can't do it well without the poles.. I was practising at the multi-storey carpark near my place, and thankully there wasn't many cars lining up behind my car.. muhahah... I tried once, but it took very long. Dear encouraged me to try another time, then he himself showed me how to do it... Dear has been very encouraging and patient with me eversince I got my license, giving me a lot of driving and learning opportunities. I felt very touched and appreciated that cuz he was quite impatient with me when previously I asked him about driving techniques. I will work harder and get myself familiar with Auto-car, and we will proceed to the Expressway once I am good on the normal roads ok?

(If you need me to warn you before I go on the Expressway, let me know ok? )

Friday, November 30, 2007

Triple Dates




Double dates I have went before, but yesterday is one of the few "triple dates" I have went to! Ha!

The 3 couples are:
- Dating couple: CK & ZD
- Enagaged couple: M & JT
- Married couple: Us lah! Who else? haha...

We met up for "Carbo-loading" session . U muz be wondering "What's that?" Well, the four of them are going for the Standard Chartered Run this sun (21km lor!!!!) and they are loading their bodies with carbo so that they will have more energy for the run.. (Actually, I think that's an excuse for big-eating lah! muhahah) Went to Suntec's Swensens restaurant and I ordered my fav half-chicken... yummy... tender and nice.. you should try it next time! Had lotsa fun joking and catching up... and also went to the Suntec fountain to take early Xmas photos! A pity when we went up, the lightings were turned off!!! I was so disappointed u know? Its really nice lor... But luckily when we returned back to Suntec, the lightings came back! and I quickly took a few snap shots of it... Will be going around to take festive season lightings if possible... : )

We later walked over to Marina Square, and headed to Arcade as we have nothing to do. M & JT left early as M was unwell. The other 2 couples stayed around to play before we headed home afterwhich. Tried our hands at the Daytona and the Bishy Bashy.(the one u need to hit very hard one..piat piat piat..) Bishy Bashy is always our favourite..Never fail to cheer us up..hee...

Love to have more gatherings like that.. Catch up soon ya!

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

28 Nov 07 - An important milestone of my life

Today marks an important day in my life... I have passed my driving test at 1st attempt! Yippee!

U can't believe it? I can't believe it either! I actually accomplish it!

It was raining so heavily this afternoon that I was so worried for myself, wondering how would I fare in this thunderous weather...sob sob... Even Dear and my colleagues and close frens who knew I am taking the test today, worried and pray for me... Thank god that skies began to clear, rain began to soften, thou lightning still strikes on-and-off. But I was really lucky that my nervous heart began to calm down once I started my test... With my guanyin prayers, and my calm composure, I managed to pass one item by one item...and with each successful stations, I felt more and more confident and relieved (especially after I finished my parking sections..haha... most worried about the parking sections...) Also, today I was considered lucky that during lane changing, not many cars, so quite smooth lah... Only a few times when the tester took out his board and made some markings, I knew something went wrong but it still didn't waver my confidence...hee...

After the test ended, the tester asked me while he marked on, " First time huh?", in a solemn and joy-less tone. "Ya" I replied... Then he started telling me which areas that I did not do well... then I looked on earnestly...What will be my verdict? I kept thinking.... PASSED!!! So relieved and joyous lor!!! I am simply on cloud nine!!!  I have overcome my  psychological barrier and the physical weather condition and finally accomplished it...

I want to thank my fixed instructor Mr Tan for his "monstrous" training whereby he spotted my weaker areas and kept training me till I overcome the psychological barrier.. I am really grateful to him.. And he even wrote me a note saying "All in my mind I can do it"... Yes, I really did it....

I also want to thank my Dear, for driving me to SSDC 8 months ago, getting me to sign up for driving, sending me to driving centre for lessons and thru these 8 months, I have learnt a lot and gained a lot of confidence.. At the same time, your assurance and encouragement also pushed me to greater heights... I truly believe I can do it and I did it... Thank you for the probation plate you bought for me, right after you knew I passed my test.. And thanks for letting me drive the car home once I passed my test today..haha... really shiok ah!

Last but not least, I would like to thank my dear frens and colleagues who gave me all the well-wishes today....

Very lastly, I would like to thank my battered shoes which have accompanied me for all these 8 months of driving lessons...

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Hard to say Goodbye...

It was hard to say goodbye to them - Teris & Jeroen, on Tuesday 20 Nov, at the airport...

The scene is just like 2 years ago when Teris got married to Jeroen, and leaving Singapore for her new home... This time round, they are back for "holidays" cum home-visiting for close-to 2 weeks, and now we can't bear to let them go... sob sob..

I tried hard to refrain my tears from flowin out cuz' it will be so embarrasing. When I saw Rachel (Teris's niece) eyes already red yet still trying to restrain too, I felt even stirred... I gave Teris a big beary hug, no words came out from my mouth... but heartfelt wishes all strong in my mind...

We enjoyed all the catch-up gatherings very much..Take Care and We will miss you a lot....

Sunday, November 18, 2007

Mus & Janet's Guo Da Li

The 2 kaypo Mei Ren (aka "matchmaker"-cum translator) & the Groom-to-be

The Husband and Wife-to-be (So interesting yah? Machiam like Prize Presentation Ceremony..haha)

The whole session was cheerful and bustling with joy.. Many of the Groom-to-be family members went together for the Guo Da Li.. everyone is so closely knitted and helpful.. A pity that there is no common language between the 2 families..However.. the SMILE is universal and is well-recognized by both families! Isn't it wonderful?

Happy XYth Birthday to Keat!




Yesterday we had a busy day - I went to Guanyin temple in the afternoon to pray for my driving test 2 weeks later, had lunch with Tanlin & Suling, bought Keat's bday pressie then me & Dear rushed down to Jurong for Mus and Janet's Guo Da Li... Felt paisheh that I never help much at the Guo Da Li except to carry a few boxes of cakes..hee.. and of cuz keeping my hubby company lah! (machiam like President's wife like that...)

The evening part is the key of the night - went to Keat and Candice's place for teppanyaki BBQ session, which is also held to celebrate Keat's XYth birthday (Note: X and Y stand for different numerical value.. you guess la! hee...) We really had an enjoyable nite chatting along, waiting for food to be served by the husbands/partners while poor them bbq-ing hard at the BBQ stand, perspiring... Oh.. how wonderful our men are, aren't they? hee... (must praise them more so that they can continue to do so in the future.. hee...) So fast, it has been a year liao.. can still remember the last year we came to their house to celebrate Keat's birthday too... Didn't time flies too fast? This time round we have Teris & Jeroen joining us since they are back in Singapore...

Once again, Happy Birthday to Keat! Hope you like the "credit card" gift huh! :P

The Van den Bros couple is back in Singapore!

It has been an eventful week, especially with the Van den Bros family back in Singapore, for home+friends visiting... It has been more than a year since they are back in Singapore... How we miss them!!! Thankfully the couple manage to squeeze out some time during their busy schedules to come to our new house for their First time visit!

We treated them to eat Indian food at one of the Indian restaurants behind our flats...Hope they enjoyed the food as much as we both did, despite the restaurant is a little bit dark, and the first dish is a little bit spicy..hee... We had a lot of fun chatting along while we had our dinner (as usual). Everywhere is joyous with Teris around.. hee...

    Mr & Mrs Van den Bros in our humble house!




Then we brought them to our house and bring them around, before we.... played 1 round of MAHJONG! You must be thinking, how can our dear Mr Van de Bros know how to play this Chinese game? To our surprise, his skills are real good considering the fact that he is not a Chinese nor a local... Really amazing!! Look at the photos and you shall see for yourself! (Note: He even won a game lor! For Honour!!!)




See Jeroen with his 八万!

                                                The couple busy taking the mahjong tiles..hee...


                                                    Huat ah!! Don't peek at my tiles yah!

I just love both of their company... Really had a great time playing mahjong with them! More chances next time ya?

Sunday, November 11, 2007

Some (non-important ) updates about me

Well well...it has been quite a while since I last updated my blog (guess it isn't that long lah.. just that its not frequent..hahah.. maybe readers of my blog dun even care? I duno too... )

Where should I start... hmm....

Driving? Ok, I am taking my driving test on 28 Nov 07 (Wed) afternoon.. Wish me luck please.. I really badly hope I can pass it first time... I have spent really alot of money on my driving lessons for this whole period... Don't worry, I am not a road hazard.. Occasionally I have small errors...hee... not life-threatening kinds...

On the past Monday both me n hubby went for lasik pre-assessment eye test at Parkway Eye Centre (@ Gleneagles Medical Centre). Dear went online to research and found out that this doctor - Dr Lee Hung Ming is very popular for lasik surgery, and set up his own eye clinic after he left TTSH... So we changed our appt from TTSH to Parkway Eye Centre.. The pre-assessment eye test is so expensive... Both of our eyes' condition are very conducive to do the standard Intralase surgery, except my only problem is my pupils are slightly larger than normal, so may tend to have the night glare after the surgery. Whereas for Dear, he has a slightly thinner cornea..not much of any problem also cuz our myopia level is considered low... Dear will have his lasik surgery in Dec. hope everything goes well... Another big hole going to be burnt in our pocket liao I will only set my appointment after my driving test...

Another update of my life is about work... I have a new lunch kaki liao!!! And guess wat? She's my boss's PA lor! Pls dun get me wrong, thinking that I am tryin to get into her good books, so that indirectly she can put in good words in front of boss...It just happened that she is always lonely during lunch as her lunchtime is unpredictable with her boss's constant demands..then she also jio another lunch-loner (Me) out for lunch companionship... In the end, we hit it off quite well! Really amazing! But think my own colleagues may have the wrong idea of us having lunch together cuz from their shocked & stunned facial expressions when they saw us lunchin together, u know liao.. my female colleague even asked me if we met by coincidence or we purposely meet to buy lunch back! Duh~! Ur business isit? We clean conscience one lor! Anyway, no good news on my conversion yet... initially very worried cuz it indirectly/directly will affect our finances, then our family planning.. sigh.. all screwed up whether I got convert or not.. .anyway... now I learn to adopt the mentality that "If its meant to be mine, it will be mine... If its not meant to be mine, no matter how I force, it will never be mine..." So, my Dear hubby... let's take it step by step mah...(sigh)

Me just joined a fitness club, aiming to lose weight and tone up... Joined the Fitness Werks - a women's gym club.. Very small place but personalized... Felt at ease when exercising there, cuz no I feel very secure with no men around... I just jump and sweat it out.. I no need to care I 走光 etc... They even got me a food journal which I need to write down what I ate for breakfast, snack, lunch, snack, dinner, and snack everyday... Have been writing.. but somehow can't manage to control well my diet yet.. still eating sushi lah, buffet lah (not frequent lah)... And till now, I only went 2 times.. not motivated enuf... Kam-ba-teh!!!

Lastly, I finally finished my "Our Honeymoon" photo-journal album (partly decorated with scrapbooking materials)..Quite satisfied with my work... hee... except I spent a little bit more on the scrapbooking materials and also the album pages are kinda pop' up with the usage of the 3D materials. Yesterday went to Made with Love in Plaza Singapura, and I bought the materials FOC lor! Cuz' I used my Capitaland vouchers mah..so shiok!! haha...

That's all for now... Will update again next week! More to come... hee...Friend's gathering, friend's wedding etc...

Latest update: While I was finishing my blog entry, a big cockroach flew in to my study room and was right in front of me!!! I screamed for Dear to come and rescue me.. Him, the Bygon-Cockroach-Eliminator had a big fight with the cockroach and finally eliminated it! haha... Bravo!!

Saturday, November 3, 2007

An unplanned exploration trip

Last Sunday, after my driving lesson, I suggested going to hubby's ah ma's house in Yishun..we long time never visit her liao.. she always ask us to go visit her more often... glad we did.. hope our surprise visit had cheered her Sunday up! She seemed to be in better health and state, and can talk and laugh with hubby.. good good... she was also askin hubby in Cantonese if I am pregnant liao! muahah... Thou' I am not very good in Cantonese, I know what she is asking from the way hubby answered her...hee...

Anyway, after visiting Ah-ma and had our dinner, I told Dear that I thought I saw a prawn-fishing place near Katib MRT station... We were unfamiliar with the place there and decided to make an exploration.. So we turned here and there, then slowly drove in the dark roads before we realise its the Bottle-Tree Park!!! I didn't even know this is the place that was featured on the TV! Actually hor, when I by-passed the place, I didn't know they got prawn-fishing activity. Cuz' I only saw big ponds there and I made a wild guess! Hubby like it when I got spontaneous to make exploration, and not always 绍兴say wan to go home early lah, wan to sleep liao etc...hee.. ya, I agree, stimes I am not as "adventurous/ spontaneous" as him..hee... I am glad that this time round I have some improvements in that sense and we come to this new place and got my first time experience on prawn-fishing!!

Here are some photos...

The Bottle-Tree


Hubby is prawn-fishing..results wasn't that fantastic after spending an hour on it..hee..dun worry, try harder next time Dear!









Yeh!! Hubby got 1 liao (One and only One...) But better than nothing wat!











Ouch! A bit cruel cuz after catching it alive, we gota pluck its feet out and poke the satay stick thru' its body..then followed by....

BEING BBQ-ed ALIVE!!!! They are still kicking and fighting for their tiny little lives while on the hot stove.. I feel like a murderer!!!


YES!!! I am the murderer!!!
Actually hubby also got shared this prawn with me... hee... So should we still go for prawn-fishing again huh? Quite guilty conscience leh...

Updates on our Weddin-versary Day

Today we didn't actually went out for any special celebration..passed the day quite quietly... Already exchanged our pressie few days ago.. I requested for :


I guess...my pressie for him (secret..hee) may not be as nice as what he gave me.. never mind Dear, Xmas coming soon... I buy something you like one ok?

We didn't really went out to "celebrate" our weddin-versary...Went to Hotel Miramar's Ikoi Restaurant for Jap buffet dinner with my in-laws as we are sending them off to airport after dinner. Unexpectedly, a small unhappy episode  between both of us happened in the restaurant which I felt quite sad about it. Thankfully it went over soon and I was glad to be comforted by my mother-in-law...it was quite embarrassing  to 流泪 in front of them... but glad they didn't add pressure on us when the situation happened. Actually this is the first time it happened in front of them..normally I can contain it and try to act normal..but this time round duno wat happened...anyway, glad everything unhappy is over liao...

Friday, November 2, 2007

Our Cotton Weddin-versary 03.11.07


A year ago on the same date - 03.01.2006, we had our customary wedding held...

Still remember the vows you said?

Still remember the fun you had that morning?

Still remember the moment when my father entrusted me, his precious daughter, to you?


My dearest 任老公,

Today marks our Cotton Weddin-versary and I really find it amazing that how time really flies! Thank you for all the love, time, efforts and money that you have spent on me during the past 4 years of pa-toring, and over the past 1 year of our marriage.. It is indeed my blessings to marry such a wonderful man and I hope I can be that wonderful woman in your life...

May we look forward to our Paper Weddin-versary on 03.11.2008, and many many more to come....

I love you deeply...

Love,
任老婆