Recently I face a lot of complicated issues, revolving ard human beings
and friends...Being human beings, we face a lot of feelings like
happiness, unhappiness, expectations, disappointments, commitments,
communication, dedication, and many others...I feel so tired recently
being a human,,cuz I hav to live up to all these emotions that we need
and the people around me need...
Friends are important to everyone, including me.Stimes others hav
expectations and commitments from u,I hope to be able to live up to
them, but stimes I do hav times whereby I disappoint them..Life is full
of ups and downs..Friendship has its closeness and distanceness...There
are some friends who are closer to you,but they are some who are
distant from you..How to relive those good memories we once had?
If human beings do not communicate to each other of wat they wan, what they live or dislike, wat will happen?
If we keep revolving ard this kind of complicated issues...isnt it
tiring?I duno wat shld I do if I can't commit to wat is required of
me...
This is the real life. Though we always say "Friends Forever", how many friends can we keep throughout our lifetime? Probably just a few who will follow us through our lives. Everyday, every week, every month, every year we met with new friends. Just like every person on this earth, we are met with different friends and our social circle will keep expanding. Through this expansion, surely there are some friends who are lost. Just like, do you still keep in touch with your primary school friends?
ReplyDeleteSad to say that this is a fact. In different times of our lives, we have different needs, we need to prioritize. And so, we distance from each other. To keep a friend is not as easy as most people thought it is. It takes effort. Like the saying, "it takes both hands to clap", if you are the only one trying to maintain the friendship, it will be so tiring. Sooner or later, you will give up and move on. It's just like a normal relationship. So, you do not need to be overly concern about this matter.
Two good friends do not need to stick together like glue, sometimes meet up once in a while is fine too. Most importantly, we should be there for each other when there's a need. This I cal "true friends".
Hmm... as for communication and expectaions... I guess we must not always try to live up to others' expectation. Not in a way that is rebellious and ignore them, but we need to know why we should do certain things, and why there are certain things we can set aside and do it later. You don't have to be hard on yourself, as long as you have done your very best, it's enough. Live your own life, not the life other people wants you to live. Believe me, you will lead a better and happier life if you change your thinking.
I'm not an expert on this issue, but just two cents worth of opinion! ^.^