Watching this show on Ch8 at 9pm daily, really gives me a lot of different feelings that I can relate to, cuz I am a married woman! These are the reasons for the different kinds of feelings...
- Bad Mother-in-law: Who can tahan this bitchy mother-in-law?? how can someone be as cruel as her, to break up her son's marriage?? She really infuriates me.. 婆媳关系has always been a hot topic of discussion, ever since the olden times. But of cuz' with the changing times, this vulnerable relationship has also change its form. I am glad that I do not have such kind of mother-in-law as this is the GREATEST FEAR of all daughter-in-law...haha..True right? A word to all the mother-in-laws in the world: Respect your son and daughter-in-law and give them the privacy they need in their marriage. Stop poking your nose into all of their affairs.
- Vixen/3rd party: Being in a marriage, another of my fear is also my man nt being able to resist another woman's (aka vixen's) seduction. This will also lead to another problem of TEMPTATION OF LUST..But how to always maintain our youth, looks, figure and gentleness forever? With time and familiarity, we will tend to 不顾形象 liao mah...So who can blame us? Sigh....
- Divorce: The most terrible thing that can happen to a marriage, and also the poor children...Can't felt teary when seeing the kids refusing to let go of their mother...I can't imagine myself growing up in a broken family...Maybe I took for granted of my parents' marriage that I have never realised the vulnerabilities of a marriage until some problems surfaced in their marriage few yrs ago..things seem to be over now, so I am very relieved...I would definitely not want my own marriage to end up in anger, tears then ultimately divorce...never...
- Friends: Friends...They are very important to you - They can either protect u or they can harm you. So keep your eyes open big big when u choose a friend for life. And please, be a considerate friend too, dun keep "bragging" or "showing off" how good your hubby/bf is to u when ur frens are healing a broken heart/marriage...I am only referring to the character in the show la. Friends, they are also a source of support when things go wrong...Cherish the right friends..the true old ones..
I could not agree with you more Candice especially on mother-in-law. At least you have a home of your own, imagine next time I am to live with my in-laws. Even that they are nice to you now, there bound to have conflicts when you see each other daily. Glup, :p
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