My Letter To Him
I am feeling very upset over our argument, you know? I din mean to put across the meaning that I am blaming you for not calling up the air-con company to book the appt for installation, as required by the ID. I understand that you have taken alot of time and efforts in coordinating the renovation stuffs, and even take time off from work to monitor the air-con piping progress today, despite knowing that there are piles of work awaiting for you in the office. I understand how much efforts that you have put in, cuz I am a blur and lost sotong in the whole reno process. BUT, what I am telling you, is that you can tell me to coordinate for the air-con installation date if you are really tied up! Its important cuz the technicians are normally in tight schedule and since we have reminders from our ID to book earlier, we should do that. I know you are busy and you should tell me to do it, instead of telling me that you would do it. You say you forgotten about it, Yes I know, cuz you are too busy. I may not be as good as you in all these reno stuffs, but when you need help, juz say it, dun keep quiet and wait till things are not done, both of us get unhappy, like now..
I know we've been in a very unhappy and stressful state when alot of coordination work needs to be done, and we have to juggle with work matters daily..I really hope the unhappiness between us can be neutralised when we fully understand the real message that I am trying to put across to you. If you need anything from me, juz say out. Please do not carry the burden by yourself.
I really hope our relationship will not be affected by all these constant arguments and unhappiness from the house reno process...Its really demoralising...
What we look forward to is a nice, beautiful, comfortable, and most importantly, a happy home...
I am sorry, if my tone has hurt you..I din mean to blame you.
i hope things are better by the time you see this.
ReplyDeletethings get rough at times but you guys will work it through. it's just the stress getting to the both of you. it'll pass as you two are willing to give in to each other and think for the other.
cheer up, ya? *hugs*
hope u guys are alright now... there is always ups n downs in life. Quarrel or rather disagreement need to settle together once things are resolved both of u will be closer n understand even more... just give him a hug or cook or buy something he likes to show ur appreciation for all the things he had done just to build a better home for both of u...
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Thank you for all of your concern..We are ok now..I understand that quarrels/ disagreements are inevitable especially during this tense process... We really hope the house can be done up soon...
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