Monday, September 3, 2007

Hurtful Attack

Not a good start for me today... Very very very unhappy over ynite events, and this morning's sms exchange... I feel so hurt inside me yet I duno how to settle this matter amiably.. I just feel both of us is at war.. 2 loved ones at war and hurting each other... Stabbed right in my heart, when you say " maybe one day you will really not treat me well..."

I just wan to find a way to communicate to you of my feelings which I've been bottlin up inside me..why can't you communicate with me properly? Why do you hav to say those words so angry, so hurtful...

It isn't easy...Its really isnt easy...when the person who is sleepin beside u everyday, say those hurtful words to you... I duno whether he means it or not... But at this pt of time.. my heart breaks into several pieces.. Duno when can I recover from the attack...

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  1. keatncandice taySeptember 3, 2007 at 9:48 PM

    hey..if you need to talk, can always call me ok?

    people say hurtful things when they're angry. they'll regret it when they cool down and remember that they didn't mean to hurt with those words. some men prefer having their own space when they're feeling upset/angry/frustrated, etc. give them that space and go back to trying to solve the issues again later when they feel better might help.

    *hugs*

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  2. Candice MokSeptember 3, 2007 at 10:24 PM

    Thanks a million...Being married, I know you understand my situations very well... Yah, I hope the hurtful words will go away in my mind and in my heart once everything blows over...

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  3. Jean LeeSeptember 4, 2007 at 4:32 AM

    *big hug*

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  4. bluey bubbleSeptember 4, 2007 at 7:21 AM

    I hope everything is fine now. There are bound to be quarrels every now and then. As long as both of you work out the differences and make peace after the quarrel, then I think it is fine. But if the problem still persists, both of you need to have a good talk with each other. I guess it is part and parcel of marriage life.

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  5. cAtz catzSeptember 4, 2007 at 8:29 AM

    don't worry. everything will be fine. he might be feeling frustrated or still not feeling well... cheer up... things will work out just fine. :)

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  6. Adeline LeeSeptember 4, 2007 at 8:49 AM

    *hugs*

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  7. Candice MokSeptember 4, 2007 at 8:50 PM

    Thank you everybody for your words of concern... Everything is ok now.. Kiss & patched up liao.. Sorry to make all of you worry... I have to learn to accept.. Its part n parcel of MARRIAGE life...
    Thank you friends...

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  8. bluey bubbleSeptember 4, 2007 at 10:54 PM

    I'm glad that everything is fine. : )

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