Our 3rd ROM Anniversary Surprise Lunch

20 Jan 09: It's our 3rd ROM Anniversary this year.

Unfortunately we'd some misunderstanding and had a cold war the night before our anniversary.. So the mood is quite dampening. In addition, we've no plans made for our mini celebration. Dampening x 2.

My spirits was finally lifted when Dear asked me out for lunch @ Ember Restuarant (Hotel 1929). Didn't expect him to ask me out for lunch epecially after the dampening nite we had.. : ) I always told him one day I would like to bring him there for lunch since I went there with my colleagues before, and find the food quite nice...Well, now I guess he is the one who is bringing me there instead.

Prepared a special gift for him - For his first time to become Daddy. Although its a soft toy that he doesn't really like, I still hope he appreciates the thought of the gift.

The restaurant captain is also very sweet by putting a candle on our apple tart desert, in celebration of our anniversary.

This lunch surprise is of nice food, for a nice special day for us.

Our simple 2nd ROM Anniversary

Yesterday - 20 Jan was our 2nd ROM anniversary.

As both of us were busy with spring cleaning for the CNY, we did not plan any thing special or buy any gifts/ cards to each other. Sound as if we are very "seasoned"old couple such that we do not bother to make any special arrangements to celebrate this memorable date. Haha... Well we do care, but juz plain lazy to think of anything after X'mas and New Year's celebration. Very soon it'll be Valentine's Day but guess we will not be doing anything special on that day either cuz dining out will be so expensive.

Had a simple 2-person set meal @ Kam Boat as our "anniversary dinner" after a long's day hardwork of wiping, scrubbin, vacuuming, and mopping.

A very simple day spent...It was just you & me...

It's because its just you & me, I feel very contented. 

2 Bonded as 1 on 20th Jan 2006

It's 1 of the most important part of my life - Our solemnization, a start to our new life as MR and MRS Yam, a legally recognised status, and also a closer bondage emotionally & spiritually...
The ceremony is concise and sweet, thou the preparation & waiting time was long but enduring... When we exchanged our vows & looking seriously at each other eyes, we knew we will be there for each other...forever...
A commitment of marriage...A commitment forever....
Close family members & friends were there to witness our union..thou a pity we cant invite everybody...We were touched by their true blessings n love for us...
May the photos will show our love, and our appreciation for the wonderful blessings received (not forgetting the gifts and smses too! We love them!)

5 more days to become "MRS YAM" or "MDM MOK"

How time flies...

Counting back to  4 years back when I first got to know him thru a mutual fren, and getting hitched with each other...We din know we were the right ones for each other, but Thank God I think I have found my soul mate, and a good family man to take care of me for the rest of my life..And of cuz, the man I so dearly...

Counting back to 6 months ago when he went down on his knees and proposed to me, asking me to be his "Mrs Yam"....

Now, counting down to 5 more days before I will be legally announced as his rightful "Mrs Yam" liao...

After looking back to good old days when we spent precious time knowing each other n family members well, when we spent time studying in NUS and encouraging each other during exams, to looking forward to days whereby we will call each other 老公老婆, having our own house that we will call our "home", helping each other in our household chores, busy with our babies and so on and so forth....

I can't guarantee that our future life together will be smooth and happy always, thou I pray hard that I will be blessed with a happy marriage. I am still struggling to be a good wife to him...to learn how to iron his clothes nicely, to be a good and patient daughter-in-law, to be more patient and tolerant towards him, and many many more... It's not easy to be in another role, to proceed to another stage of my life...

I hope he can give me the utmost support, I hope everyone will give us the blessings to fulfill the above mentioned...

5 more days to go to become "Mrs Yam" or affectionately called by my "beloved frens and colleagues" - "Mdm Mok"... Haha...

"Marriage may be made in heaven, but the maintenance must be done on earth."
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