We are not exchanging OUR kids with other kids. My husb & I are merely "exchanging" our own kids with each other. As I mainly take care of the baby brother now and he with the elder daughter, we have planned a program for an exchange with each other for half a day mainly for me to have some mother-daughter bonding time with my girl. It turns out that my husb has his own getting-to-know session with his son & enhanced their bonding too!
Husb bought 2 tickets to Disney On Ice for our daughter to watch & gave me a chance to get out of the house and not only to breastfeed for a few hours! Most precious experience is I can have 100% attention & time on my girl. Initially I was worried that husb cannot cope with the baby & also myself misses the baby. But luckily he has a relatively smooth day with the baby & whereas for me, despite there are a few incidents that occurred, I m glad that I managed to resolve them swiftly! Being able to witness my girl's joy & excitement when she finally knew about the surprise is more priceless!
With this exchange, we both are able to get the thing we desire - he got his desired rest & chance to catch up on past tv shows while I get the freedom to go outside for a walk! Normally it's the opposite. He got to bring my girl out for classes & errands whereas I m cooped at home latching latching latching! Haha
At the end of the day, we both appreciate what we each other has been experiencing & being more appreciative of each other's efforts with each of the child. Most importantly we get to spend more time with the kid on a more balanced scale!
"Families fill our lives with happiness and laughter leaving us memories to treasure today and forever after" Author: Unknown
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Thursday, April 7, 2011
The Yammies' 1st trip to Tokyo! (2 Mar - 11 Mar 2011)
It has always been my dream to travel to Japan! And viola! My dream has finally come true! The Yammies are going to Tokyo in March!
We planned for a 10-days trip although we are only touring Tokyo free & easy, cuz firstly there are simply so many wonderful places to visit, with 3 days to be spent solely in Tokyo Disneyland, and most importantly we wouldn't want to rush with a toddler on hand!
Day 1: We departed early in the morning and finally reached Tokyo around 4-tish pm after 7 hours (long) flight journey! By the time we took the airport limousine bus from the Narita airport to our hotel in Shinjuku, it was already 7-tish pm and the skies were really dark now... We were so hungry and we randomly chose a decent looking Japanese restaurant to slurp up our dinner!
Day 2: Our program for the day is Sanrio Puroland!! Although it is quite a small place, it is so good to be in such a kiddy place! haha.. I admit I am a kiddish person lah..haha.. Well, its ok since I have a toddler girl with me, and she knows Hello Kitty! She calls it "I-tty". We first watched the drama show at the Fairyland Theater which happened to start screening. Although we do not understand Japanese, we still enjoyed watching the show! Then we also took the Sanrio Character Boat Ride, and watched the Hello Kitty in The Magical Land of Oz! We had a fun day at the Sanrio Puroland before heading to Shibuya area for dinner. At Shibuya we had a simple dinner, after having to give up a few choices as the restaurants are full of smokers and it was so smoky! Never knew that restaurants in Japan allow smoking. Shock! Disappointed!
Day 3: It's ASAKUSA day! For old streets and Sensoji Temple and traditional goodies! It's a nice feeling walking down the old streets feeling the cool breeze in the face, and trying the nice traditional Japanese snacks, and not forgetting buying souvenirs back home! Next stop is Ameyoko as it is pretty near Asakusa's stop. We didn't do anything there except to SHOP! haha.. Happened to see a big departmental store and then a few good hours are spent there buying my first Samantha Thavasa bag, pouch and a Agnes B bag (on behalf of my colleague) : P SHIOK! But broke : /
Day 4: Today is scenic sightseeing day cuz we are paying a visit to the infamous Mount Fuji! BUT we are not going to climb the Mount Fuji cuz it would be quite tedious for us as it would be a long long journey... So we decided to take the FREE Hakone free pass, and head to Hakone to view Mount Fuji instead.
With Hakone Freepass, one can also ride 7 types of transport in the area, such as the Hakone Tozan Line and the Hakone Ropeway, We started on the Hakone Romancecar, then hop on to Hakone Tozan train, Hakone Tozan cablecar, Hakone Ropeway, Hakone Sightseeing Cruise to cruise the Lake Ashi, then lastly we took the Hakone Tozan bus back.
The day is good and we have a very good view of Mount Fuji! But Kayla had been very tired running around with us, hoping from one transport to another. I am sure she doesn't know what is so great about Mount Fuji! Hee..
Day 5:It is Sunday and it is recommended to visit Harajuku on a Sunday as the cosplay characters would gather on a Sunday. However after walking for the whole day, we only managed to see a few at the end of the day. We seem not to have found their "gathering" place bah. Instead we went to do more shopping at the Omote Sando Hills stretch of branded shops! Haha.. He bought a Black Label Burberry black sling bag whereas I got myself a Blue Label Burberry sling bag and matching ladies wallet. *Satisfied yet feeling abit guilty for the spending* : P
After a long day spent at Harajuku, we went to Times Square - Takashimaya to buy Disneyland tickets and had dinner there to end our Day 5...
Day 6: It was snowing!! I din expect that we can actually see snow in Tokyo, and snowing means its freezing cold out there and a wet weather makes it difficult to travel with a toddler in hand! so we sort of took our time to prepare ourselves, had in-room Nespresso coffee before layering all of us in multiple layers of thick clothings before heading out to Odaiba - our destination of the day!
In Odaiba, we went to Venus Fort in Palette Town - a 3 storeyed building where there is something for everyone in the family - 1st floor: Venus Family, 2nd floor: Venus Grand, 3rd floor: Venus Outlet. The 1st floor is opened to dogs too, since Japanese are well-known to be dog lovers. We saw quite some dogs and their dog owners in Venus Fort. Quite cool since shopping malls seldom allow animals to enter.
Luckily the snow stopped when we reached Odaiba, and also we stayed mostly indoors until we moved on to look for the Rainbow Bridge, Statue of Liberty, and the Tokyo Tower. It was really freezing cold at the outdoors!!! And Kayla was throwing a lot of unhappy tantrums while we rushed from one point to another point.
Day 7: We checked out from our hotel and moved on to Hilton Tokyo Bay Hotel as we are going to the Disneyland for the next 3 days!! Our first Disney stop is Disneysea as its smaller in scale compared to Disneyland, and since its something unique in Tokyo, we have to see what's in there!
We were pretty lucky to be in time for the noon session of the Greeting session at the gates upon entering Disneysea. So we got to capture a few pictures with some key Disney characters, feel the excitement in this wonderland, before entering into the fantasy dreamland! Then we noticed that there were quite a crowd sitting around at the Mediterranean Harbour, and realised that the parade show may be starting soon!! We quickly find a good position to sit down and tried to get ourselves warm while waiting in the cold! Kayla loves the Disney parade show very much, and kept clapping hands and jumping up and down with the music and dances...
In Disneysea, we took the 20,000 leagues under the sea ride at the Mysterious Island, took the Caravan Carousel and watched the Aladdin show at The Magic Lamp Theater in the Arabian Coast, then to the Mermaid Lagoon for the Jumpin' Jellyfish ride, and watched the Mermaid Ariel show at the Mermaid Lagoon Theater. We even managed to catch the fireworks at night before leaving for the day.
Actually we have not checked in the hotel room in the afternoon before we rushed to the Disneysea, so we are really pleasant to see our Magic room at Hilton! Its a very massive room with very nicely decorated wall paintings. We simply love it! And there's a very nice sea view when we opened the blinds.
Day 8 - 9: Both days were solely for Disneyland as we knew that it will be too big for us to cover within a day. Unfortunately Kayla caught a cold the night before, and we were so worried for her. Luckily the medication helped and we let her rest more before we went to Disneyland in the afternoon. In the hotel while she was having her nap, we actually felt some earthquake tremors. Initially we were like "Oh Shit! What should we do?" As Japan is prone to earthquakes, we were quite worried whether it would escalate into something massive. Fortunately the tremors didn't continue and we departed with a lighter and happier heart! : )
Again, we managed to catch the Jubilation Live parade in time, and of cuz Kayla enjoyed it very much too! We got to see more Disney characters as compared to the Disneysea's parade.
As we reached Disneyland pretty late, we didn't manage to get fast passes for the rides. So we only watched the Parade, had our late lunch, walked around Disneyland, bought our popcorn baskets(!), and managed to enter It's a Small World as it was only a short queue. Well, not bad for the day given that we started late. At least Kayla was well enough to spend the day with us.
We managed to cover more rides and shows on Day 9! Like the Pooh's Hunny Hunt (my favourite!!), Monster's Inc. Ride & Go Seek, the Western River Railroad, watched the show at the Country Bear Theater and Oh! Minnie Minnie! show and the Electrical Parade Dreamlights at night! Not bad siah!!! And we managed to also saw the fireworks again before leaving.
Other than all the rides and shows, I should not forget to mention we shopped till crazy there!!! We bought many things for ourselves, for Kayla and for our close family and friends! Love Disney to bits!!! Would love to go to another Disney in near future!
~Shortly after we departed from Tokyo on Fri 11 Mar morning flight, a terrible earthquake and Tsunami that struck Japan in the afternoon. We were very very very fortunate and blessed to have escaped from this natural disaster/calamity by a mere difference of 3-4 hours, and returned safely to our home, and to our family. We felt very sorry for the people who were stranded there, and who lost their lives, their families in this unfortunate natural disaster...~
Saturday, March 26, 2011
The Toddler Kayla: 19 - 20 months
19-20 mths:
- Able to answer our queries with simple replies & able to tell us her likes/dislikes, wants/don't wants.
- Know how to say "洗手"& imitate the washing hands action
- Likes to eat noodles n will always says she wants to eat "oon-dle" whenever we ask her. And she will also follow up with "cut-cut" cuz I will use the plastic food cutter to cut her noodles.
- Likes watching theatre & live shows from Puroland & Disneyland.



- Able to press the lowest lift button & happily wanting to press everytime she gets near the lift.
- Likes holding handles! - On subway, Disney train, Disney bus...

- Likes shopping! - Makings of a "Shopping Princess"! She always want to roam about on her own whenever we go into a shop in a shopping mall. She will keep chanting " gai gai" or "walk walk". Then she will pick things from the racks & even tried putting one into our shopping basket!
- Showing signs of a Singaporean cuz she says words like "Don't want LAH! ", "No LAH!"
- Likes to play "copy cat" game! She does the action, we copy.
- Able to identify and name "bus, van, lorry, car, motorbike"
- Learning to wear her own clothes, and socks

- Being more of a vainpot! Likes bags, accessories etc..

- Started potty training for her! Bought her a pink potty & a potty training book for girls. She is pretty cooperative to sit on the potty, and I do not want to push her too hard or fast on potty training. I started to let her get interested to the potty, let her sit on it with her shorts on, then without her diapers even thou she may not pee out.I just want her to get used to the whole routine first then slowly work towards the goal when she is older and able to understand instructions better. It's pretty taxing to keep trying in every intervals of 1 hour to let her try sit on the potty and try to pee in it. Hope I can be determined enough and will not slack on this important part of training.
Sunday, December 26, 2010
The Toddler Kayla: 16 - 17 months
Her developments from 16-17 month's old:
- She finally know how to indicate "Yes" by nodding head, say "uhm"... (better than always facing a "No No", "Don't want" baby all the time!)
- Able to apprehend better what we say to her, and will give us her response indicating her understanding of our question to her.
- Her 9th, 10th, 11th & 12th tooth sprouting out
- Able to say numbers "1-5" although some numbers are not that clear yet
- Able to recognize and say "花" when see pots of plants although sometimes its juz leaves! LOL!
- Able to stand balanced on one feet while holding us for support when we change her pants.
- Reading story book aloud to herself!
December is the X'mas month! 1 more month to go before Kayla turns 1.5 years old! It has been a very fun & gratifying time watching her grow!
Events happening in December!





As part of our "family tradition", every year Xmas day is spent with our in laws. This year is hosted by us, at our place. We didn't tell Kayla beforehand that her cousins are coming and she looked kinda shocked when she woke up from her nap that they appeared in her house! She had a fun time with them around!



- She finally know how to indicate "Yes" by nodding head, say "uhm"... (better than always facing a "No No", "Don't want" baby all the time!)
- Able to apprehend better what we say to her, and will give us her response indicating her understanding of our question to her.
- Her 9th, 10th, 11th & 12th tooth sprouting out
- Able to say numbers "1-5" although some numbers are not that clear yet
- Able to recognize and say "花" when see pots of plants although sometimes its juz leaves! LOL!
- Able to stand balanced on one feet while holding us for support when we change her pants.
- Reading story book aloud to herself!
Events happening in December!


Highlights of our trip - Eat & Drink!

- Xmas Eve - Bring your kids to office event! (24 Dec 2010)

As part of our "family tradition", every year Xmas day is spent with our in laws. This year is hosted by us, at our place. We didn't tell Kayla beforehand that her cousins are coming and she looked kinda shocked when she woke up from her nap that they appeared in her house! She had a fun time with them around!

Saturday, November 27, 2010
The Toddler Kayla: 15 - 16 months
15-16 mth old:
- Able to use the TV remote and switch the TV on/off by herself
- Saying "Wah" in exclamation! (so expressive)
- Not only climbing Down, now also climbing UP the sofa and bed
- Able to feed herself with a spoon more steadily, but still need support occasionally.
- Able to construct simple sentences by that we can understand (eg Mama um = mama eat; 这个poh= 这个是pooh)
- Learning to hold the toothbrush and try to brush her teeth by herself
- Likes talking on her toy phone, and using different kind of objects (e.g. remote control) as her toy phone!
- Having more meltdowns due to toddler's frustrations inside her (e.g. Shouting loudly NO! In reply to us, hurling things on the floor in frustrations, crying loudly when taking away the toy from her in shopping centre). All these are quite common to happen during toddler stage when they are 1-3 yrs old as they can't express what they want. This is a very challenging period for us as we need to set limits and ground rules for her, yet not be overbearing & screaming parents, or over-giving in to her which may result to a over pampered tyrant in future. We need to be in control, stay composed & guide her the proper way to behave. I will always try to observe what she is trying to tell us, and hope that it will reduce her frustrations and the resulting behaviour.
Events in November:
6 Nov 2010: Cousin Dyan's 3 years old birthday party @ the Gymboree!

20 Nov 2010: Eiman's 1 year old birthday party @ the Hort Park!

21 November 2010: Gymboree Trial Class
28 Nov 2010: Chloe's 1st year old birthday party @ The Chevrons!

Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Sep 2010: The Yammies' 1st trip to Hong Kong!
It was the Yammies' 1st trip to Hong Kong as a family! and also both me and Kayla's 1st (but not papa thou). I was very excited as I have been wanting to go Hong Kong and Disneyland!
Departure Day: We had to wake up at 5am as our flight was scheduled at 8.30 a.m. Thinking we can prepare the last few items before Kayla woke up, but somehow she seemed to know she was going on a trip and she woke up at same time as us, feeling upbeat! Haha. So in the end one of us had to prepare the things while the other one took care of her. As the travel agency arranged a complimentary pick-up cab for us, we were in time for check-in. At the airport, Kayla looked a bit dazed thou cuz I think she was still sleepy.
The taking-off was pretty ok - we made milk for her to drink and shortly after, she fell asleep. It was the later part of the flight that she felt bored that she refused to sit down, and made us had to carry her and walk around the crampy airplane aisles. Sighz. During the landing, we would like her take some water to ease the air pressure in the ears too.
When we reached HK after 4 hours later, it was already noon and we were hungry! Then upon collecting our pram we then realised Cathay has made spoilt one of the pram's handle! Not only we had to rush to lodge report with their counter, we had to collect luggage and check out, and also rushed for the bus who would be sending us to our hotel. Geez.... In the end we had no time to change Kayla's diapers and it overflowed and wet her clothes : ( Then we had to change her while on the bus. Very challenging task!
Around 3pm-tish, we finally reached our hotel - The Mira Hotel @ Nathan Road! The hotel looked so stylish and modern! Then we had to wait at the hotel lobby for another hour, hungrily and tired, as we requested for a King-sized bed and it was not available yet. In the meantime we quickly made cereal for Kayla's post-lunch while Papa went outside to buy some food back for our post-lunch too. He couldn't find anything except nice simple bread and freshly baked egg tart from a bakery shop! Yum yum! It was really nice and satisfying as I really loved to eat bread! By the time we'd settled in our room, bathe everyone and fed Kayla's dinner, it was time for us to go out for dinner.
We went to Harbour City area for dinner and hopefully able to hit some nearby shopping areas. In the end we managed to go an Espirit factory outlet and wu ying liang pin to buy some snacks for colleagues and family.
Next morning we ventured out to search for a recommended HK cafe - The Australian Dairy Co. @ Jordan Street. It was supposingly not far from our hotel, but as we were unfamiliar with the streets, we took a few detours before finding it after more than 1/2 hour! During the journey we would take some photos of the HK streets, old buildings etc. We wolfed down the food as we were both hungry, and gota rushed to meet my HK colleagues in their office @ Queensway.
Kayla created a mini commotion at the HK office and my HK colleagues were crowding round her! She even tried to "take over" my boss's chair in the office! Hahah...We had very nice Shanghainese cuisine for lunch with them, and my boss very generously asked her driver to send us to our next shopping destination - H&M @ Central!
We were so excited when we saw all the children's clothes at the top level of H&M! During midst of selection, our little princess suddenly had the urge to "poo poo". So we had to find a corner at the maternity's section to help her push out the poo poo.. It was a tough time for her and us..haha.. luckily no one chased us out.
HK Disneyland: Next day is HK Disneyland's day!! We managed to take the Mickey Mouse MTR to Tung Chung for some more shopping at Citygate Outlets. There are many branded labels at slashed prices! We shopped mostly at Adidas's shop.
Then we were in time for the Mickey Mouse Disney Parade at 3.30pm. The weather was unbearably sweltering hot! And we had to keep hydrating Kayla and wiping off the sweat from her body. Despite that, she seemed to enjoy the Disney Parade and even waved to the Disney characters! We were also lucky to be able to take picture with Daisy Duck who was happened to be near us. That nite, we went to view the fireworks at 7.30pm! It was great atmosphere especially with the fairytale music playing in the background (but weather was still quite hot thou). We bought a lot of things in the Disneyland merchandise shops and it was really shiok! We only managed to tour some bit of the Disneyland and took 1 ride (The Cinderalla Carousel) as we didn't allocate more time for Disneyland. Nevertheless it was still a good and fruitful trip.
I hope to visit HK Disneyland again, when Kayla is older. And hope she will enjoy more of it in future!
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Our 4th Wedding-versary
20 Jan 2010 is our 4th Wedding-versary & also our 8th Pator-versary. Initially we planned to go for a short Bintan trip with Kayla, but it din materialise as Kayla jux recovered from illness; I am terribly busy at work especially with the auditors here for these 2 weeks. So ended up we have to stay in SG.
Despite the plan being foiled, we still make efforts to go for our own date on that special day of ours! Took half day off from work and went to catch a very belated show - Avatar! It was a very nice show, definitely exceeding my expectations of the show. Enjoying every minute of the show, so much so that I can't bear to leave my seat to clear my full bladder
After the show we proceeded to our Weddin-versary dinner @ Ikoi Japanese Restaurant - one of our favourites for Jap buffet. Spent the time talking to each other, bonding with each other as husband & wife as we may not have the time & heart to do so when caught up with the busy demands of life.
It feels really good to be able to enjoy such couple loving moments every now and then..
His gift for me: Thomas Sabo's charmlet with a heart charm (representing his love), and a baby pram charm (representing the baby in our life)
My gift for Him: A "Because I Love You" coupon - can be redeemed at any time!
Despite the plan being foiled, we still make efforts to go for our own date on that special day of ours! Took half day off from work and went to catch a very belated show - Avatar! It was a very nice show, definitely exceeding my expectations of the show. Enjoying every minute of the show, so much so that I can't bear to leave my seat to clear my full bladder

After the show we proceeded to our Weddin-versary dinner @ Ikoi Japanese Restaurant - one of our favourites for Jap buffet. Spent the time talking to each other, bonding with each other as husband & wife as we may not have the time & heart to do so when caught up with the busy demands of life.
It feels really good to be able to enjoy such couple loving moments every now and then..
His gift for me: Thomas Sabo's charmlet with a heart charm (representing his love), and a baby pram charm (representing the baby in our life)My gift for Him: A "Because I Love You" coupon - can be redeemed at any time!
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Our Secret Date
Sssh... It's our secret date... 
We were on leave on last Friday, without informing my in-laws - Kayla's caregiver during the weekdays cuz we planned to go on a Secret Date! A date that belongs to juz both of us!
Started with Yakiniku Lunch buffet @ Daidomon - quite difficult to eat with peace if Kayla is around..sorry girl, have to leave you behind for this! We've always wanted to try this so decided to have it when she's not around.



Next we rushed to Plaza Sing for a movie date - 2012. A very touching movie on the end of the world... It's especially touching after we became parents to Kayla and the scenes of the separation of parents and children makes my heart break. My tears kept flowing.. During the show, I kept missing Kayla and wished the secret date could end soon so that we can go and pick her up asap!
Despite missing Kayla loads, I still enjoy my private time with dearie... It makes long missed lovey dovey husband-and-wife feelings to return and makes us closer again.
I think I will want another secret date with dearie again! hee.. *Sorry Kayla!*

We were on leave on last Friday, without informing my in-laws - Kayla's caregiver during the weekdays cuz we planned to go on a Secret Date! A date that belongs to juz both of us!
Started with Yakiniku Lunch buffet @ Daidomon - quite difficult to eat with peace if Kayla is around..sorry girl, have to leave you behind for this! We've always wanted to try this so decided to have it when she's not around.

Next we rushed to Plaza Sing for a movie date - 2012. A very touching movie on the end of the world... It's especially touching after we became parents to Kayla and the scenes of the separation of parents and children makes my heart break. My tears kept flowing.. During the show, I kept missing Kayla and wished the secret date could end soon so that we can go and pick her up asap!
Despite missing Kayla loads, I still enjoy my private time with dearie... It makes long missed lovey dovey husband-and-wife feelings to return and makes us closer again.
I think I will want another secret date with dearie again! hee.. *Sorry Kayla!*

Monday, August 17, 2009
3rd & final week of my confinement!
A happy thing to celebrate tis week - Final week of my confinement! Yipee!
Will be celebrating Kayla's full month on this Sat and going out with her & hubby next week to get presents for my FIL & SIL.Also a chance for me to get a breather!
Hubbie is back to office this week after accompanying us for 3 full weeks..He's really a capable, supportive & doting husband cum father to me & the baby. Without him around, I wonder if I can survive the past torturous & depressing weeks...We'd our laughing momentz even when cleaning baby's greenish poo-poo together! Althou' we are beat, we still support each other in taking care of Kayla, making our relationship even closer than before.
Breastfeeding has become easier for me now thou my back feels strained after sitting in the position for more than an hour, at least
. wat to do when she feeds so slow? Havn't got to bathe her yet. Will do it after my confinement bah.
Her hands can grasp our fingers well now and she likes to suck her fingers! We keep her fingers away from her mouth by putting mittens on her. So she bites her mittens instead.
Now she can smile...

frown...

stretch herself...

sleep with her mouth opened
Shots of her in the pram (too big for her?)
On the Winnie bouncing chair, taking a nap in between feeds

In her Hippo shorts
Sleeping in her dad's arms

Talkin to Winnie the Pooh?

Crying & Fretting (her way to tell us "I M HUNGRY!!!!!!!!")
Well...no matter how Kayla frustrates us with her cries, shes still our Super Cute baby...
(see wat see? box u ah!) wahaha..
Will be celebrating Kayla's full month on this Sat and going out with her & hubby next week to get presents for my FIL & SIL.Also a chance for me to get a breather!
Hubbie is back to office this week after accompanying us for 3 full weeks..He's really a capable, supportive & doting husband cum father to me & the baby. Without him around, I wonder if I can survive the past torturous & depressing weeks...We'd our laughing momentz even when cleaning baby's greenish poo-poo together! Althou' we are beat, we still support each other in taking care of Kayla, making our relationship even closer than before.
Breastfeeding has become easier for me now thou my back feels strained after sitting in the position for more than an hour, at least
. wat to do when she feeds so slow? Havn't got to bathe her yet. Will do it after my confinement bah.Her hands can grasp our fingers well now and she likes to suck her fingers! We keep her fingers away from her mouth by putting mittens on her. So she bites her mittens instead.
Now she can smile...
frown...
stretch herself...
sleep with her mouth opened
In her Hippo shorts
Talkin to Winnie the Pooh?
Crying & Fretting (her way to tell us "I M HUNGRY!!!!!!!!")
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Papa & Mummy Yammie are tired..
How time "flies". Baby Kayla is now 2 weeks old. Day in day out both Papa & Mummy Yammie are busy fussing over the baby, and the house. Especially we've "fired" our confinement nanny mid of this week, reason being that she has started to show bad attitude especially after we give her some feedback. She even vented it out by not washing the milk bottles thoroughly. This is one of the infuriating things that we have to bear with her. There was a time whereby Dear wanted to carry the baby when she was crying, and he even say out twice, but she ignored him totally! How frustrating that is! We are the baby's parents, so we have the priority and the right to carry the baby and soothe her when she cries. We feel its a pressure having her to continue staying with us, especially she takes care of the baby totally at night. So we asked her to leave after speaking to the agency. We felt more relieved, although more tired now as we have to do everything by ourselves, without her posing as a "threat" in the house. Other than only us, we have my mother-in-law and cousin-in-law helping to cook and clean the house every now and then. Really appreciative of them rendering help to us even at last minute's notice.
So with the confinement nanny not around, we have to take up the responsibilities to take care of the baby earlier - for e.g. bathing the baby, changing diapers, dressing and undressing the baby, coaxing the baby to sleep, waking up for night feeds etc. It's not easy for both of us, especially with the baby crying so loudly when we are slower in our actions. It's also heart aching having to hear the baby crying so pathetically, with her whole body and face turing red, when she seems to be scared.. How we wish we know how to pacify her in the right way, and not causing her so much distress...
Other than the above, Baby Kayla also have her updates! She has more cutesy facial expressions now, and sleeps lesser in the daytime now. Of cuz she is more demanding in her milk intake and despite my milk production has gradually increased, I have still not yet catch up with her demand yet! So breastfeeding her is such a long & tiring process...Without the constant encouragement and support from Dear, I would really want to give up and just give her formulae milk instead.
We need a good long sleep and I badly need a breather soon (coped in the house for the past 2 weeks which is considered a very long period for me liao
). How nice when we can just shut ourselves inside the room and just not bother about anything (but can we?)
That's the "duties" of new parents I guess.
So with the confinement nanny not around, we have to take up the responsibilities to take care of the baby earlier - for e.g. bathing the baby, changing diapers, dressing and undressing the baby, coaxing the baby to sleep, waking up for night feeds etc. It's not easy for both of us, especially with the baby crying so loudly when we are slower in our actions. It's also heart aching having to hear the baby crying so pathetically, with her whole body and face turing red, when she seems to be scared.. How we wish we know how to pacify her in the right way, and not causing her so much distress...
Other than the above, Baby Kayla also have her updates! She has more cutesy facial expressions now, and sleeps lesser in the daytime now. Of cuz she is more demanding in her milk intake and despite my milk production has gradually increased, I have still not yet catch up with her demand yet! So breastfeeding her is such a long & tiring process...Without the constant encouragement and support from Dear, I would really want to give up and just give her formulae milk instead.

We need a good long sleep and I badly need a breather soon (coped in the house for the past 2 weeks which is considered a very long period for me liao
). How nice when we can just shut ourselves inside the room and just not bother about anything (but can we?)That's the "duties" of new parents I guess.
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