Friday, October 3, 2008

Generation Gap - X, Y, Z

Recently we have some young interns from polytechnic in our company. Somehow, there's some attitude shown in them that we do not find them acceptable, and even wondering what's wrong with this batch of interns? The way they think, they speak, they behave - seem to be nonchalant about how people view them. They just say what they think, do what they think. In some ways or another, they seem to me as "non-compliant".

Through a conversation with friends over lunch yesterday, we came to a conclusion....

GENERATION GAP!!!!!

So, I decided to go a quick search online.

From Wikipedia:


Generation X is a term used to describe generations in the United States and other countries born between the approximate years of 1965 to 1981, the late 1950s and 1960s, or 1968 to 1979, depending on the source. The term has been used in demography, the social sciences, and marketing, though it is most often used in popular culture.

- Key characteristics: quest for emotional security, independent, informality, entrepreneurial

Generation Y
, sometimes referred to as "Millennials" or "Echo Boomers", is a cohort of individuals born with possible starting dates ranging anywhere from 1976 to 1982 to possible ending dates anywhere from 1990 to 2001, that grew up in the 1990s and 2000s.

Traits of Gen-Y (us!)
- Generally more ambitious, brand conscious and tend to move jobs more often than previous generations.
- More peer-oriented
- Exceptionally tech-savvy
- Especially tuned to their own value in the job market
- Have limited loyalty to any particular employer
- Insist on working in a stimulating job environment.
-More openness in regards to sexual and romantic life-styles than prior generations. Generally more openness to sexual expression and experimentation, but with less or even totally without romance or attachments.
- Upbeat and confident: Self-Esteem generation, Positive thinkers, Self-reliant: Used to doing it (and many other things) themselves, Multi-taskers
- Asserting their "intellectual authority" over parents, teachers because they are more techno-savvy and capable of accessing greater breadth of information quickly
- High value for education
- Motivated and Goal-Oriented
- What do Gen Yers value most in life? Family
- Traditional values: Unlike the Baby Boomer generation, Gen Yers value things other than income and status as being primary in life, Appreciate family, country, and planet

Generation Z is the generation of people living in Western or First World cultures that follows Generation Y. Experts differ on when the earliest members of Generation Z were born, as the generation is still in its infancy, with some members yet to be born, making it difficult for demographers to determine the proper cohort. This generation is possibly still being born, and the oldest members are at best teenagers, so at present it's impossible to say when Y ends and Z begins. The earliest cited dates being Z at 1989 or 1990

They are very active consumers, with a high degree of influence over their parents' purchasing decisions. They are highly connected, having had lifelong use of communications and media technologies such as DVDs, the World Wide Web, instant messaging,text messaging, iPods and cellular phones, earning them the nickname "digital natives".

Generation Z is more indulged and anti-social than Generation Y.

So basically Gen Z should be the interns' batch bah. As this new generation is still young, there is no further information about their characteristics. But one thing that I can confirm is that - my bosses (the Gen-Xers), myself and my colleague friends (the Gen-Yers) cannot accept the attitude that our intern is displaying. sigh

'Generation Gap' is also another way of putting it, that we are definitely growing old and the new generations are emerging. However, I feel that I like what I am now - in my 20s range. I feel that I am more matured, have more purchasing power, has a better feel of identity of myself, more confident, healthy physique, and probably wiser?? haha.. I hope so.

Friday, September 26, 2008

Preview of F1 Grand Prix trial run

Being situated on the high floor of the OCBC Centre, I have the bird's eye view of the F1 Grand Prix race track. See the brightly-lit track there?



This afternoon was the F1 Grand Prix trial run and we got to witness it! Once we heard the loud racing sounds, almost all of us rushed over to the window. The racing cars were so small, like Tamiya cars.. hee..

It was an exciting moment having to witness the F1 Grand Prix trial run for the very first time, without having to pay anything. haha... Especially when we traveled up onto ECP from Rochor, we were so so so near to the racing cars and they were really LOUD!!! Both me and Dear were excited but we just can't seem to see the cars despite hearing the loud vroom-ing sounds..Real stereo leh!

Monday, September 22, 2008

What's happening to the World now?

I think the World is slowly moving towards self-destruction.

What happened previously? - Sars causing countless death, 9-11 major terrorism attack, mad cow disease, economic crisis, hole in ozone layer widening, tsunamis...

What's happening now? - With the US$ dropping, petrol prices rising, major investment banks declaring bankruptcy, other investment banks forming coalition in order to continue surviving in this big market, China's milk products causing death, several other milk products being recalled in SG, weather all around the world going haywire and unpredictable, Sze Chuan earthquake disaster, sudden heart attack deaths....

Its quite saddening to see all these happening around us uncontrollably while we only focus on working, making money, setting up our own family - everything revolving around own's life.

Should we care for the environment and Mother Earth more before the World really self-destruct? 

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Why?

I dun understand why... why must couples have cold wars, silence treatment, harsh words, arguments, etc??

Its a very mind and emotional torturing when things like that happen...

Why must such things happen over small issues that are not important in the first place?

Why can't I take an overnight cool-down period to forget the unhappiness inside me, before we kiss and patch up again?

I dun mean to be unhappy as and when I like. I can't control the emotions inside me right! I can't pretend that I m ok, when I know I am not, and I m sure you know I am not.

I m unhappy becuz I dun understand why our previous conversations in our memory got swopped. Its so unbelievable when you insisted on your words that you said the things that you din (at least in my memory). I know sometime my memory fails me, but there are certain times, I can remember things clearly. That's when I am perplexed. Cuz I just can't convince myself that I was wrong and you were right. When I feel unjustified, I can't swallow it like that. Why can't I be unhappy becuz I feel unjustified? Since I can't get over my feelings with a snap of finger, why can't I take the quiet way out to distract my feelings by watching tv la, do watever things such that I will forget the incident? Why must you harp that I am controlling your emotions?

We are both different individuals, and have different emotions, and have different way of handling emotions. I do not mean to control your emotions, but since we are a couple living together, we will tend to influence each others' feelings cuz we care about each other and are always together. Why can't we learn to observe, learn to adapt and learn to cope with each other's different way of emotions handling? You also have your time that you want to stay away from me, and cool down. If I am not being too unreasonable at the point of time, I will. Cuz' I know and respect that is your way of handling emotions. Over time, even I myself learn this method from you cuz I think its useful.

Most importantly, we must think in such a way that watever unhappy things should be over after the cooling period, and make things good again. Why must we carry over the unhappy things and make it a bigger event than it should have been?

Can we just not continue to be like this? I've waited for your return and hope we have a good and happy couple time together, and not such kind of unhappy time...

Friday, September 19, 2008

When you are not around...

Dear had to attend a 2 days 1 night course training at JB over Friday and Saturday.

Didn't want to spend the Friday night alone, I quickly made plans for myself. As a girl-friend of mine can't go shopping with me last minute, I made another plan that is destructive to my pocket - MAHJONG!!! haha... And I am sure you won't expect who have I arranged with for the mahjong game. Its his colleagues!!! Ya! I gathered a few of his colleagues to my place, without him around! haha.. There's both guys and girls, just in case if you are wondering...

We started off with some games on Wii as this is our next-big-thing in our house. And they enjoyed it! We even had a good time laughin at one of them (person's identity concealed to protect his/her best interests) when playing the boxing game. There's even video evidence! Or I can also demonstrate to you! Wahaha...

After 2 rounds of mahjong, I was the biggest loser (as usual). So, next time Dear shall help me "take revenge" liao..wahaha...

Dear, when you are not around, we also had lotsa FUN!

Confirmed - False Alarm

Its kinda confirmed that its indeed a false alarm, the day right after I blogged the prev entry. Cuz period symptoms came along then the real thing came another day later...

sigh...

Guess its still not time yet.

If so, when's our turn leh?

hmm...

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

False Alarm?

Felt kinda nauseous for the past few days...

Hubby said that he had a strong hunch that this is IT... His 'soldiers' were strong and powerful!

I was wondering... could it really be this time?

Hubby was happy and said "Finally he is going to be a Daddy!" - It brought a smile in my heart

Let's monitor another few more days and see if it is a false alarm or not...